Timid people start to worry, when they should carry out any actions in a neznakomoyobstanovka, drawing of attention and critical remarks of people around which seem them exacting and influential.
Similar situations cause concern even in quite selfassured people.
But such people perceive concern only as a signal to more active actions directed on monitoring of a situation.
It is similar to how the athlete perceives adrenaline emission before the beginning of competitions only as the normal excitement caused by the forthcoming duel, instead of as fear before possible defeat.
Often the thought on shyness arises under the influence of stereotypic ideas of our reaction to these or those situations very often distorted.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
Pointcontacts can serve wakening at podrost interest to own personality and to the feelings.
Thus, teenage age it not only timecrisis experiences, but also time of increase of the ownselfimage.
Again, as in crisis of the early childhood, are actual there are problems of dependence and the independence moststatement and submission, sensuality and sexuality.
All adults working with teenagers, should accuratelyto represent that developments at them occur notin itself, and under the influence of requirements of significant relativespeople and referential environment.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
Probably, in hospital the patient will not receive all necessary, but it is most readily available of possible options.
In the Loyebsky center for leaving and rehabilitation at the Montefyersky hospital located in Nyyuyorka, some openin quite explainable from the point of view of a continuum were made.
In the center declared that it managed to reduce percent of repeated reception on treatment for %, applying a method of complete acceptance and encouraging patients to tell about the problems.
The director and the cofounder of the center nurse Lydia Hall argued that medical care in the center was closest to care of mother of the newborn child.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
If we are ready to ask a question where to go and what to do, means, we are already ready to apprehend the answer and a course to change.
To be verified with the internal compass.
Family travel happy to you! We will be very much glad, if this book practical work channelizes you, ideas and inspiration.
DENIAL DENIAL As is harmless to be released from harmful feelingsIt is good to be a bee.
It is possible to be protected.
Anybody will not attack you.
, of course, both pleasure, and happiness.
But each parentknows where they were got, by all means got andproblems.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
As example of such behavior that fact can serve that timid people often in a minute forget a name of person just presented to them.
The impossibility to concentrate on the present and to watch that who that speaks, leads to inability clearly to think and express the thoughts.
The friendship with agemates not only is pleasant in itself, but also as show results of researches, it promotes emotional growth and health of children.
Therefore, if shyness interferes with friendship of the child with his agemates, it harmful affects on its emotional health.
Our main task consists in teaching you to reduce to a minimum adverse effects of shyness which are capable to prevent development of your children.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
Their opinion, as a rule, differed from opinions of other respondents teachers, children and their mothers.
Or they have absolutely other ideas of shyness as that, or badly know the children.
Carrying out research among children of preschool age, we could not rely completely on yielded questionnaires and results of interview to children.
Instead we used four sources of information on how four five and sixyear children imagine shyness and timid people.
We and our assistants carried out supervision over behavior of children in kindergartens and schools, and then asked their teachers and parents to fill our questionnaires about shyness of their children and pupils.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
Many people need weighty arguments to think well about themselves therefore always behave such in a way that your selfimage did not suffer from your behavior.
Avoid everything that causes in you sense of guilt.
Try every day or to make every week at least one act of which you could be proud.
Here some suitable councilsStart to carry out the program of exercises Bake cookiesPut things in order in a photo albumBe cleaned in a roomRepair somethingAccurately place books on book shelves Reorganize working the overdue letter to the friend Paint or paste wallpaper on one of walls in your roomReturn books to libraryDraw a picture, make an ornament of beads, make something of ceramicsMake something on the houseMake homework without a superfluous reminder Read the bookWrite the poemThink up to yourself still any occupation of which you could be proud.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->